Marry for Love and Money
When two become one it is in love, responsibilities and finances. As much as many couples would love to think "What's mine is mine and yours is yours" it doesn't always happen that way.
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Secrets of financial infidelity
July 4, 2011
Secrets can either strengthen or break a relationship. Either way, many couples are engaging in financial infidelity where someone hides his or her purchases.
Financial rules for couples
June 16, 2011
When it comes to rules there isn't a one size that fits all clause. Relationships can be difficult enough, but when you mix in finances that's an entirely different conversation. Depending on which financial expert, which channel or which book, you will receive conflicting recommendations. It's important to gather as much information as possible and discuss what is best for you and your partner. In the end, you have to live with the decision, implement the tools and practice daily.
Dividing responsibilities can be easier than splitting every bill down the middle
February 22, 2011
Don’t’ be deterred by the word divorce. Yes, we are programmed for the meaning to have a bad connotation. Financial divorce can lead to a blissful marriage. When two mature, healthy individuals have been on their own for many years it can become difficult to merge everything. At times this is difficult for major corporations.… [Read more…]
Have you resulted in separate accounts?
February 21, 2011
I pose this question not to ponder about your intimate relationship, but your financial status. You may share the same bed and love each other dearly, but for some reason you can’t agree on the finances and how it is allocated. This conscious financial divorce stems from not being able to agree on how to… [Read more…]
Valentine’s Day is a great opportunity to discuss your relationship’s finances
February 14, 2011
The ideal relationship consists of two people coming together as one. One idea; one goal; one belief. In addition to all three mentioned, you want to make sure that your financial goals coincide with one another’s belief. Although many partnerships have a Ying and Yang effect, it can make for a turbulent ride. Have you either… [Read more…]
My Life Is Not One Dimensional
November 12, 2010
Reported by Bahiyah Shabazz, MBA There’s not a day that goes by when you ask yourself “How can I improve my life?”. Depending on the time of day, week and circumstance you can have multiple answers. Make sure your answer reflects everything that is instrumental in your life. Focus on your holistic package, which includes well-being,… [Read more…]
WE WILL NEVER MARRY OUR ACCOUNTS
September 12, 2010
Reported by Bahiyah Shabazz, MBA Marriage is the merging of two beings as one…ideas, goals, aspirations, paychecks and accounts. Some households have their own concepts as how the marriage will work. Will IT ever balance out? The husband makes the most money, but he never writes down any transactions causing a continuous flow of overdraft… [Read more…]
Financial Secrecy
September 10, 2010
We all have secrets, some bigger than others. However, is it really a secret when you are running from the truth. Many couples are contemplating marriage because of debt. NO! It's not the wedding budget.
Addressing financial stress in a relationship
July 17, 2010
Reported by Bahiyah Shabazz, MBA The good old days of Motown Records taught us how to cultivate and survive in a relationship. The temptations sang about “treat her like a lady…show how much you care”. Today, many have lost sight of pampering relationships. The communication simply isn’t there. The love is gone. The finances are… [Read more…]
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