Marry for Love and Money
When two become one it is in love, responsibilities and finances. As much as many couples would love to think "What's mine is mine and yours is yours" it doesn't always happen that way.
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To buy or not to buy that is the question
March 27, 2012
Since I'm extremely frugal and my husband thinks the yellow brick road leads to a money tree it's important we talk about our finances. If not, it would be a disaster. We've incorporated weekly financial dialogue, which has saved the relationship from a financial meltdown. Each weekend, we create a weekly budget and discuss our personal and financial goals.
Signs your partner is bad with money
October 27, 2011
Have you ever wondered why you're broke by Monday and there are two incomes in the household? You're not the only person with this question. Many times one person is a saver while the other is a spender.
Financial rules for couples
June 16, 2011
When it comes to rules there isn't a one size that fits all clause. Relationships can be difficult enough, but when you mix in finances that's an entirely different conversation. Depending on which financial expert, which channel or which book, you will receive conflicting recommendations. It's important to gather as much information as possible and discuss what is best for you and your partner. In the end, you have to live with the decision, implement the tools and practice daily.
Buying Your Dream House Can Cause You To Have Financial Nightmares
January 4, 2011
Reported by Bahiyah Shabazz, MBA “I don’t want to struggle anymore; I can’t afford my house, but I want to quit my job.” ~ Anonymous Recently, I met a woman who was severely stressed at work because of verbal harassment. To her dismay, her boss never took her seriously when she complained. You can imagine that… [Read more…]
Secret Spending Results In Financial Infidelity
December 6, 2010
Reported by Bahiyah Shabazz, MBA Cheat (v.) ~ To deceive. There are times when items magically appear in the household. The spouse may claim that it’s years old while the tag is dangling from the sleeve or the shoes were never worn. It becomes a problem when multiple items are discovered unbeknownst to the partner. In any… [Read more…]
Love Yourself, You Get Better Results
October 13, 2010
Reported by Bahiyah Shabazz, MBA I recently overheard a conversation with a man and woman. You could tell he really wasn’t into her, but she couldn’t read the signs. As she professed her love for this guy, he responded by stating “Love yourself, you get better results”. After my initial shock, I had to agree… [Read more…]
Teamwork For Finances
October 11, 2010
Reported by Bahiyah Shabazz, MBA Teamwork –noun 1. cooperative or coordinated effort on the part of a group of persons acting together as a team or in the interests of a common cause. 2. work done with a team. We put so much emphasis on the words “teamwork” and “team building” in the workplace when it’s just as important at home. According to the first definition, a part of a group (two parties) should act together for a common cause. In a successful… [Read more…]
Financial Secrecy
September 10, 2010
We all have secrets, some bigger than others. However, is it really a secret when you are running from the truth. Many couples are contemplating marriage because of debt. NO! It's not the wedding budget.
Communication About Finances Is Needed for a Successful Relationship
July 17, 2010
Dispute about finances is one of the top reasons many couples file for divorce. Today's economy is hard enough without the communication or lack of disclosing one's financial success. When you have one spouse who is a saver and the other who is a spender, you find yourself treading water with no place to go.
Unauthorized Purchase
July 17, 2010
Reported by Bahiyah Shabazz, MBA The summer is approaching, the weather is changing and ideas are churning. Every channel, billboard and commercial are saturated with weight loss advertisement. It constantly reminds you to maintain your health and fitness goal. The year is well in its way and you have remained diligent with your workout routine.… [Read more…]
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